The death of a brother or sister can be one of the most devastating experiences in a child’s life.
Yet sibling bereavement is often overlooked, leaving surviving children struggling to process grief while parents cope with their own loss.
In Sibling Bereavement, writer and researcher Ann Farrant explores the profound emotional and psychological impact that the loss of a sibling can have on children and families. Drawing on real-life case studies and expert psychological insight, this compassionate guide examines how grief affects surviving children and the complex ways families respond to tragedy.
The book explores important issues including:
How children experience grief after the loss of a sibling
The emotional trauma and long-term effects of childhood bereavement
Guilt, anger, and unresolved conflicts following family loss
Children who feel pressured to support grieving parents
Why some children struggle to express or process grief
Healthy ways families can begin the mourning process
Rather than offering rigid rules, the book recognises that there is no single “right way” to grieve. Instead, it provides thoughtful insight and understanding to help families navigate loss and move forward with compassion and resilience.
Combining personal experience, psychological research, and moving real-life stories, this book is an invaluable resource for anyone seeking to understand the lasting effects of sibling loss.
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Support for adults who lost a sibling in childhood
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Whether you are a parent, counsellor, psychologist, teacher, or someone coping with the loss of a brother or sister, Sibling Bereavement offers compassionate insight into one of the most overlooked forms of grief.
Ann Farrant is a freelance journalist, writer and researcher. She has worked in many branches of the media – newspaper, magazines and BBC Television. In the 1970s she was a founder member of Cruse Bereavement Care in Norwich; she has also worked as a volunteer fund-raiser for the children’s charity UNICEF.
Clinician, St.Louis, Missouri - published on Amazon.com
“Ann Farrant tells the stories of adults who experienced the death of a brother or sister during childhood, in this much needed book. "When a brother or sister dies," she writes, "the children left behind are mourning not only the loss of that sibling, but also the loss of the shape of the family." Using case studies, she describes the aftermath of sibling death. For some, this meant being neglected by grieving parents; for others it meant being targeted for the parents' subsequent anger. Farrant makes it clear that the death itself is only the beginning, and documents the social and psychological damage resulting from the lost "shape of the family." Sadly, many of her subjects were telling their stories for the first time, never having had the support necessary, as children, to grieve the loss. Children, says Farrant, need to have the enormity of the loss acknowledged at the time.
The author looks at this problem from a historical perspective and weaves together the experiences of those she interviewed with sibling loss in the lives of well-known individuals such as J.M. Barrie, Charlotte Bronte, and Vincent Van Gogh. She touches on the role of literature in society's view of childhood loss, and cites recent works as evidence of encouraging changes in our understanding of how death affects children.
I liked this book and, as a clinician, find it a useful tool in working with adults who are just beginning to grieve an early loss. I recommend it for any adult who lost a brother or sister during childhood. Despite the serious subject matter, it is easy to read and leads the reader towards a hopeful future."
Clinician, St.Louis, Missouri - published on Amazon.com